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		<description><![CDATA[Hello to everyone out there in the land of the Undefined, I thought it would be a nice change of things to do an interview with a fellow blogger! The author of Thoughtful Thoughts approached me with the idea, and I thought it would be a lot of fun. I used the pseudonym Molly, so [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=iamnotdefined.wordpress.com&#038;blog=31709363&#038;post=639&#038;subd=iamnotdefined&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Unsure~Advice</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2012 21:21:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear I Am Not Defined, I recently reconnected with a childhood friend after a decade. He turned out to be a really nice guy, counting on the fact that he had always been rowdy and unruly when we were kids. What amazes me more is that he&#8217;s a musician. (I&#8217;ve always been weak at the knees for [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=iamnotdefined.wordpress.com&#038;blog=31709363&#038;post=629&#038;subd=iamnotdefined&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Mar 2012 04:02:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear I Am Not Defined, The thing is, I really like a boy since about two years ago. I don&#8217;t want to like him, I tried to talk to him (but everybody says I didn&#8217;t. Maybe I just don&#8217;t know the way to talk to him because I think he&#8217;s too special to talk with [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=iamnotdefined.wordpress.com&#038;blog=31709363&#038;post=618&#038;subd=iamnotdefined&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Depressed</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Mar 2012 20:51:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Things started getting very difficult for me when I started questioning my mind. I wondered if everyone else felt as depressed and unhappy in life as I did. I seriously doubted all of my happy-go-lucky friends could feel like I did, and still smile and goof around all day. Life started to wear me down, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=iamnotdefined.wordpress.com&#038;blog=31709363&#038;post=609&#038;subd=iamnotdefined&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Trust Issues~Advice</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Mar 2012 03:51:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear I Am Not Defined, There is a huge, complicated back story to my problem. All complications with an ex-boyfriend of mine, who I broke up with six months ago, and his new girlfriend (who used to be one of my best friends) and my (now ex) best friend. My problem is that I have [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=iamnotdefined.wordpress.com&#038;blog=31709363&#038;post=553&#038;subd=iamnotdefined&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Awkward~Advice</title>
		<link>http://iamnotdefined.wordpress.com/2012/03/12/awkwardadvice/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2012 21:02:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear I Am Not Defined I feel like I don&#8217;t belong in my group of friends at school. I don&#8217;t have that &#8220;label&#8221; that people have for other people, such as: the friend that always gives good advice, the friend who always makes me laugh, the friend who never makes a moment awkward, the friend who [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=iamnotdefined.wordpress.com&#038;blog=31709363&#038;post=526&#038;subd=iamnotdefined&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Sidetracked</title>
		<link>http://iamnotdefined.wordpress.com/2012/03/07/sidetracked/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2012 05:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I felt a lot better in high school than I had before, but things were not perfect. It seems like I always had a boyfriend, but my taste in guys was terrible. It seemed like I loved a rebel, and asshole guys were my specialty. I dated a lot of guys who made me feel [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=iamnotdefined.wordpress.com&#038;blog=31709363&#038;post=500&#038;subd=iamnotdefined&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Depressed~Advice</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Mar 2012 05:05:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear I Am Not Defined, Okay, ever since I started on WordPress, I&#8217;ve tried to find people and stories to encourage me to keep going in life. For the past few months, I&#8217;ve felt absolutely lost. What does that mean? Ever since I found that my will to continue has diminished significantly, it&#8217;s been a struggle every [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=iamnotdefined.wordpress.com&#038;blog=31709363&#038;post=449&#038;subd=iamnotdefined&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Books or Boys~Advice</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2012 06:07:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>IamNotDefined</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear I Am Not Defined, I know that my problems probably aren&#8217;t on the top of your list to answer, but I&#8217;d really like some straight up advice. People may dismiss it as typical high school drama &#8211; and I know I may too in a few years, but right now, it seems pretty real [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=iamnotdefined.wordpress.com&#038;blog=31709363&#038;post=395&#038;subd=iamnotdefined&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>At Peace</title>
		<link>http://iamnotdefined.wordpress.com/2012/02/26/at-peace/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Feb 2012 03:40:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>IamNotDefined</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[High school was something I really had to fight for,  for the first time in my life. I didn’t want to go to the same school as all the people I grew up with, so with a teachers nudging, I tried to get into a local “special” school. I had been in advance classes all [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=iamnotdefined.wordpress.com&#038;blog=31709363&#038;post=369&#038;subd=iamnotdefined&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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